If love becomes so painful, it’s time to let that love go and save yourself. you got to keep this in mind: “you will find another love but not another self. ang mundo ay tambak ng mga taong pwede mong mahalin. kaya tandaan mo hindi lang siya ang tao sa mundo. gamitin ang puso para alagaan ang taong malapit sayo at gamitin ang utak para alagaan ang sarili mo.
"Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag hindi mo na hinihintay ang mga tawag o text niya. Kapag hindi ka na bitter sa tuwing may nakikita kang magbf/gf. Hindi ka na naaapektuhan kapag pinag-uusapan siya ng mga kaibigan mo. Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag tanggap mo na na wala na siya at hindi ka na umaasa na babalik pa kayo sa dati. Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag hindi ka na umiiyak at nalulungkot sa tuwing naaalala mo siya. Sa halip, napapangiti ka dahil masaya ka na kahit wala na kayo, naging masaya ka noon dahil sa kanya. Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag hindi na big deal sa’yo kung may kasama na siyang iba. Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag handa ka na ulit makipagkaibigan at makipag-usap sa kanya ng walang hard feelings. Malalaman mong nakamove-on ka na kapag nasabi mo sa sarili mo na, “Finally, tanggap ko na.”
Maaring habang binabasa mo ‘to, may isang tao ang pumasok sa isip mo. (via escafeism)
Trust. When you trust your partner, you’re accepting all about them even their little things. Your relationship is barred by walls, thus creating irrevocable barriers and seemingly undestroyable fences. Long before you commited yourselves in the dimension of being more than friends, you also…
Syempre babae tayo. Tayo yung mga naniniwala sa fairytale at happy ever after. Tayong mga babae, tayo yung mga naniniwala sa mga infinity eh, tapos yung mga nangangarap na sana isang araw, mangyari sa’tin lahat ng mga bagay na sa mga movie at sa “masusuwerteng babae”
"I promise that this will go away, I’ll try until that time comes where my head will stop thinking about you, you will no longer be a part of my daydreams and a fragment of my beautiful nightmares. I won’t beg for my heart to keep it’s steady state because it won’t stop galloping everytime I see you. Where I’ll feel nothing when you look at me and the joy of seeing you won’t exist anymore. I won’t hope for another day or another hour or mere seconds where exchanging smiles somewhere takes place. I won’t feel any of that butterflies because I feel you coming near. I won’t see sparks that lies within your eyes and feel those fireworks whenever you show me that smile. No attachments to you ever again and my stupidity will come to it’s end.
Alam ko na lumalandi ka at alam ko na hindi ka naman seryoso sa mga nanlalandi sayo pero KAHIT NA. Ang point ko kasi ay yun mga oras na nilalandi mo sila at pinapakilig mo sila, laking tuwa na nila yun kasi sumasaya pa rin sila at pakiramdam ko natatalo nila ako dun.
Is it bad to look for someone who can love you selfishly ? Someone whose always afraid to lose you or someone whose always after a fight once he caught some other guy looking at you ? I always want someone who can give me the assurance that he’ll never leave me or make me cry. Someone who will…
Fulfill your responsibilities when you're in a relationship. If he's mad, comfort him and apologize until he feels okay. Make him feel that you're sincere enough and will never do it again. Even though his anger came from little things and it's not that big deal to end up arguing, do something. Lower your pride. Broaden your patience and understanding. Don't you ever level your anger with him. It will just mess up everything.
Hindi naman talaga maiiwasan na masaktan ka ng isang tao. Kahit ibigay mo lahat ng bagay. Kahit mawala na lahat sayo para sa kaligayahan niya. Ganyan talaga. Part yan ng pagmamahal. Walang taong perpekto na hindi ka kayang saktan. Masasaktan at masasaktan ka pa rin ang dapat mo na lang gawin ay subukang kalimutan ang nangyari at magpatawad.
"Asking me to forget that you once broke my heart is like a asking a non-drinker whether beer tastes bitter - it does not make sense. It’s true that in order to move forward, you have to let go of what is holding you back. However, it does not necessarily mean that you have to forget all about it. Once something caused you severe pain, it is not easy to remove it from your mind. You will always have lucid moments where everything comes back to you all at once and you have no choice but to welcome them back again in your life, hoping they won’t stay for a long time. You may try to forget but every time you look at your reflection in the mirror, you can see the aftermath - the once sparkling eyes were now replaced with panda-like eyes, the once smiling mouth doesn’t even know how to smile anymore, the once happy aura was gone and in its place stood sadness and loneliness and hurt, that the girl who was once beaming with life had been replaced by a living dead. You can see far deeper all the scars that only fellow broken people could see. It’s not easy, you know. It will never be. So before you beg me to remove all the bad things from my memory, try to be in my shoes and see that the pain doesn’t go away with just a shrug, that it remains long after you have already began living again, that you cannot completely forget something that had adversely altered your life. You can’t just fill in that gaping hole inside you in an instant. And even when you did after quite some time, the feeling that it gave you can always come back even during the times when you think you are really happy and free. You cannot completely forget and go away from the pain that love had caused you. You live with it.
to me, love is going to bed at night knowing that there is one person out there who is thinking of at that same moment. love is having a last call of the day be the one last person that you want to talk to while lying in your bed just before the day is over. love is a smile, it’s the…